Buying a home is not a discrete event; it's a process -  a sequence of  events that happens over time, sometimes over as long as  several months  or even years!  While general guides to buying a home  are a dime a  dozen, I'm excited to share with you some insider secrets  you may not  have heard elsewhere - one for each stage involved in  buying a home.  Here's to helping you make the best decisions at every  phase of your  home buying process!
Stage One: Deciding Whether It's The Right Time to Buy.  
Insider Secret: The market is the least important factor you should consider when deciding whether and when to buy a home.
Why: Everyone  knows affordability is at an all-time high.   Home prices are low, and  so are interest rates. But trying to time the  market is a fool's errand;  many who get caught up in that game of  trying to make sure they buy at  the absolute bottom will end up losing  out on very, very favorable  conditions.
Beyond that, the most important considerations when  deciding whether  and when you should buy a home are personal, not market  driven. On  today's market, it only makes sense to buy a place if it's  going to be  sustainable and work for you for at least the next 4-5 years  [if your  town's real estate market has been fairly recession-proof] or  7-10  years [if the housing/foreclosure crisis has hit your area pretty   hard]. 
Against this "smart holding period" backdrop, smart buyers decide to buy when it makes sense for:
- their life plans (i.e., they are comfortable making the commitment to live in the same town, and the commitment to )
- their family plans (i.e., whether they plan to get married, have   children or empty their nest in the time they plan to own the home - and   the implications of these plans on their space needs and location   priorities)
- their career plans (including, but not limited to: whether they have   job or income security, whether they feel they will be working in the   same area for the foreseeable future, and whether they want to work  less  or start their own business in the months or years to come)
- their financial plans (including foreseeable changes in income and   expenses, e.g., kids going to college or making partner at the firm).
Stage Two: Getting Pre-Approved.
Insider Secret: Working with a mortgage broker referred by your real estate broker or agent may save you money.
Why:Bolstered  by the real-life stories of a couple of bad  apples, TV pundits and some  consumer advocates have spun the tale of a  real estate industry cartel,  whereby sinister agents hook unsuspecting  buyers up with shady mortgage  brokers, who place them in crappy loans  and kick back some bucks to the  agent. I'm here to tell you, in my  experience, the opposite is true the  vast majority of the time.  
When you work with a mortgage  broker who has a strong track record  of helping your real estate agent's  clients out, you end up in a best  of all worlds situation, nine times  out of ten. 
First off,  your agent will take you much more seriously once  a mortgage broker  they know and trust has run your credit, checked your  income and  approved you for a loan, as well as communicated with your  real estate  pro about your qualifications and what you can afford. 
  Secondly,  your agent can help you communicate with your mortgage broker,   sometimes helping get past appraisal glitches or facilitating other   workarounds, as they come up. 
Third, you get the assurance of  working  with a mortgage pro who has been vetted and vouched for by  someone you  not only trust, but someone who can verify that the  mortgage broker has  the ability to get transactions closed in the  timely manner required of  today's real estate sales contract.   Otherwise, you may end up working  with a competent mortgage broker who  has a great track record when it  comes to refinancing, but can't keep  up with the pace and common  obstacles to getting a home financed in the  context of a sale.
On  top of that, sometimes the relationship can help you negotiate out  of a  couple of line item loan fees (if your particular mortgage rep has  the  power to get them down at all), if push comes to shove and cash is  tight  to close the deal. 
 Assuming  you are working with a real estate pro you  really trust, working with a  mortgage broker they trust can save you,  rather than cost you, money.
Stage Three: House Hunting
Insider Secret: "Distressed" doesn't always equal "discounted" - in some cases, a "regular" sale can be a deeper deal.
Why: Short  sales and foreclosures have grown to comprise roughly  30 percent of the  homes sold on today's market, even higher in some  areas. The average  sale price of foreclosed homes was 32% lower than  the average sale price  of non-foreclosed homes, at last count. However,  it's not always the  case that foreclosed homes or short sales - homes  which are being sold  for less than what the seller owes on their  mortgage(s) - offer the  buyer a fabulous discount.  
Mortgage servicers and asset  managers who make decisions about  distressed properties are on the hook  to their investors to recoup as  close as possible to the current fair  market value of every home they  sell. Some banks even have a general  rule of rejecting offers more than  10 percent or so below the home's  list price, preferring instead to  reduce the price by that amount and  put the home back on the open  market to see if any new buyers are  activated by the price reduction to  make an offer better than the  lowball offer that was initially put on  the table.  On short sales, the  bank is trying to get as close as  possible to recovering what the seller  owes - and may or may not be  concerned with what the fair market value  of the home is. (Nine times  out of ten, there will be a big gap between  fair market value and the  seller's outstanding mortgage balance. If  there wasn't, the seller  wouldn't need to do a short sale!)
With  so many distressed properties and homes with depressed values  on the  market, in many areas, the individual, non-distressed home  sellers who  are putting their homes up for sale right now are those who  are very  motivated to sell. Further, they are more likely  to be flexible with  you on everything that is negotiable, from  contingency and escrow  periods, to price, to repairs and included  items. 
Also,  individual sellers can be emotionally motivated to sell to move  on with  their lives, get into their bigger (or smaller) house, or move  on to  their next job; banks, on the other hand, aren't people (!), so  lack  that emotional sense of urgency to get the properties sold, no  matter  how urgently you may think they should be trying to get rid of  the  foreclosed properties they own. (If you've heard the old advice  that  banks don't want to be in the home-owning business, I can tell you  this.  That is true, in a very general sense, but now they are and will  be -  for a long time to come. They have no emotions, have no urgent  need to  sell or move, and are not willing to give houses away at  pennies on the  dollar to get out of it, no matter what those  infomercial folks say.)  
Long  story short: you can  sometimes negotiate a better deal with an  individual seller on a  "regular" sale than with a bank on a distressed  home sale. So, don't  limit your house hunt to foreclosures and short  sales, if you're  looking for a good deal on your home. 
Stage Four: Negotiations
Insider Secret: Your family and friends can cause you to lose your dream home.
Why:  With so much information on the web and the news every day  about the  recession and the buyer's market, everyone seems to be an  armchair  economist/real estate savant.  But much of that news is  national and  based on medians, averages and trends.  That is, it might  not  necessarily apply to every home on the market in every city, and  more  importantly, it might have nothing to do with "your" particular  home. 
When  I was a little girl, my best friend's grandfather would very  carefully  hand each of us a quarter, always doling it out with the sage   admonition: "Don't spend it all in one place." We'd always smile, look   at each other, then go ask our Moms for ten bucks apiece.  In the same   vein, people who are not currently in the market for a home have no  idea  what an individual home should "go for." If you tell your parents,   church pals, or colleagues at work the blow-by-blow details of your   offer, counteroffers, etc., you should expect to hear things like, "Oh,   you're paying way too much!", "I think you should push them down  another  $10K," or "You know, you're in a better bargaining position  than that."  And sometimes, taking that sort of advice will end up  blowing your  deal.  
Work with  your trusty real estate broker or agent to develop a  smart strategy -  with their experience in your local market - about what  price and terms  to offer.  Then keep working with them to manage and  maintain  realistic expectations as you proceed through negotiating the  contract  to buy your home.
Stage Five: Escrow, Inspections and Underwriting
Insider Secret: It's critical that you attend your home inspections.
Why:  When it comes to inspections, many first-time buyers expect  that a home  will either pass or fail.  Except in a few jurisdictions  where the  government imposes certain condition requirements for a home  to be sold,  the home inspection is more about educating you, the buyer,  as to the  details and nuances of the home's condition than about  seeing if the  place hits a particular target for "good" or "bad"  condition.  
Home  inspectors don't just look for things that need fixing, they also  look  to understand the home's systems and features, as well as to point  out  areas that will require your ongoing maintenance, highlight  emergency  shutoffs and other need-to-knows, and indicating where you  should have  specialists further inspect items of concern. Many home  inspectors  create vivid, detailed electronic reports - some, complete  with color  photos. But that's not enough! 
If you're physically onsite at  the home during the inspections, the  inspector can physically show you  the shutoffs for water, gas and  electric - 
and how to use  them.  They can also point out, in  person, any things that need repair,  and give you some tips for  maintaining the place in tip-top shape.   Also, in many states, the  general home inspector is legally prohibited  (vs. the pest, roof or  other "specialty" inspectors) from issuing a  written quote or bid for  repairs, to avoid a conflict of interest where  they'd try to fabricate  flaws in the home to get the repair job.  However, the repair costs are  one of the most important things a smart  buyer wants to know! 
If you show up, many inspectors will give  you a rough range it would  cost you to do various repairs, or otherwise  indicate to you whether  the needed repairs are "big deal" or "$10 home  improvement store"  fixes; some will even give you a few references to  contractors they  trust.  
All around, you'll get much more  of the  detailed information you need to know whether and how to move  forward  with the transaction if you should up in person to the home  inspections,  rather than just waiting for a copy of the report to come  to your  email. 
To make sure your home purchase is handled professionally – hire 
TERRY BEAR - The Bear Team of Performance Realty, a trained professional. 
In the long run, you will wind-up with more money in your pocket and have less challenges with the move.  
Courtesy of Terry Bear - The Bear Team of Performance Realty